Name: Mia Wenjen
Where do you live now? I live in a suburb now, about 7 miles west of Boston. We moved there for the excellent public schools and it certainly has that in spades.
What does it mean to you to have a voice?
Having a voice means following your own path and not be scared to speak out.
How did you find your voice?
I grew up in Seal Beach in Southern California.
It's a small beach town nestled under Long Beach and above Huntington Beach, two beaches more well-known than my town. The population is 60,000 people, evenly split among retirees (we have the first retirement community in the country) and everyone else.
Like most cities in Southern California, there was diversity in terms of Asian Pacific Americans, Blacks, and Latinos. When I was in 4th grade, I read every single book in my elementary school's well-stocked library. It took me more than two years. I read every single middle-grade fiction and biography book but I never, ever read about a character that looked like me.
I remember up until 4th grade, I was a pretty quiet child. I thought a lot of sarcastic or jaded thoughts, but I kept them to myself. I finally decided, on a whim, just to say out loud what I was thinking. I think that's when I started expressing my voice. It wasn't any kind of revelation, but I do remember thinking that my friends thought I was funny at times. My inner voice had a sense of humor!
What event or series of events helped you find your voice?
When I was in business school, I was in a program called TEC on Campus. We visited entrepreneurs at their companies and learned about how they got to where they are now and what sacrifices they made to get there. The person who ran the program, Larry King (not the famous one), was an industrial psychologist. He mentored all of us on our entrepreneurial ambitions. He was just a really good listener who made straightforward challenges to help us all move forward.
Later on, in response to being kicked out of a women's clothing company that I founded, I decided to take an art class as a form of therapy. As a result, I ended up doing business consulting for a family-run art school, Brentwood Art School, and also took many, many art classes. It was the beginning of unleashing a creative streak in me.
Whose voice are you influenced by?
I think that I've learned to be proud of my mixed-Asian culture. I'm half Japanese and half Chinese American and my husband is Korean American. We are really food-obsessed and enjoy cuisine from all over the world. In Asian culture, the act of preparing food and eating together is a way to convey love. It's also a time to be together.
Culturally, I've heard that the nail that sticks up gets pounded down, but I embraced following my own path which usually means a willingness to stick out. My parents always supported me and I think that's why I was willing to stick out and speak out.
I think my husband’s voice influenced me the most because he is someone who is not afraid of confrontation or speaking out. And he has the kind of leadership style that is 110% confident so people around him naturally turn to him.
How has your voice influenced others, particularly those in your community?
My blog, PragmaticMom.com, focused on diverse children's books pretty early on. I've been blogging for 11 years and I think I formally drew a line in the sand to focus primarily on diverse children’s literature about 9 years ago. Reading stories from minority points of view is a wonderful way to "walk in other's people shoes." I think children are much more receptive to accepting differences than adults.
With a fellow children’s book blogger, I ended up starting a nonprofit, Multicultural Children's Book Day, to celebrate and get diverse books into the hands of children, teachers, librarians, parents, and guardians. I also mentor, both in for